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The Rules for Being Human |
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» Coaching |
We live in complex times, a direct result of task saturated lives with high expectations and little or no time to process information. This, combined with a plethora of visual and auditory stimulation, increases stress resulting in doubt, uncertainty, and a certain degree of anxiety. This feeling is experienced by not just a few individuals but by a large section of society; a condition that has given rise to the need for coaching.
Dr. Carter-Scott
designed, produced,
and presented the first
MMS Coach's Training
in December, 1975 which
lasted until May, 1976
and which resulted in
the training of participants
as Certified Coaches. Since then
Dr. Carter-Scott has
been teaching individuals
how to coach in the
US , NL, and in Switzerland
. She has also used
her expertise to become
an Inspirational Keynote
Motivational Speaker.
The MMS Coach's Training
goes deeper than the
standard trainings in
coaching and embraces
the principles of Inner
Knowing and the Mirror
Approach to Life (as
is described in chapter
seven of If Life is
a Game, these are the
Rules ).
An MMS trained Coach
and an MMS Master Coach is someone
who can get out of the
way and be a mirror
for another person who
wants to take a close
look at himself.
Dr. Carter-Scott is
currently selecting
individuals to certify
as MMS/MMI licensed
Coach Trainers around
the world.
For more
information about this
course call in the US
(800) 321-6342, outside
the US +1
(805) 683-9353.
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The
process is catalytic for
self-discovery in that
people discover their
own answers to confusing
situations. The environment
needs to be safe, supportive,
and empowering in order
for people to find out
what they truly want.
The
Process is similar to
opening an oyster and
finding a pearl inside,
compressing and polishing
a piece of coal and revealing
a diamond within. The
treasure or answer always
resides within, but it
is often camouflaged by
layers of confusion, doubt,
uncertainty, and fear.
The challenge is penetrating
through the layers of
"I don't know"
and piercing through to
the "I knows".
The process is ultimately
simple and infinitely
profound. The
coach ask open-ended questions,
suspends judgement, creates
a safe environment encouraging
the client to use his
imagination and explore
his fantasies. He has
no agenda, nor does he
know what is next, or
what is best for the client.
The coach doesn't give
away any of his own good
ideas. |
People
who believe in themselves
manifest their dreams,
and those who don't, sell
themselves short. It isn't
enough to help people
find out that they want,
it is essential to support
them in believing in themselves,
in knowing that they deserve
to have what they want,
and are able to have their
dreams come true. |
The
programs focus on the
individual and his/her
ability to grow and flourish
in life. In addition,
the programs help people
interact more effectively,
both on and off the job.
In one-to-one sessions
the same essential issues
are addressed: |
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How
can I have what
I want in my life? |
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How
can I have the job
that utilizes my
abilities and skills,
gives me a sense
of satisfaction,
and rewards me monetarily? |
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How
can I have the primary
relationship that
I want? |
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How
can I have the home
environment that
I want? |
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How
can I have the body
that I want? |
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How
can I feel good
about myself? |
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How
can I have my business
be the way that
I want it? |
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How
can I design the
life that makes
me feel like my
dreams come true? |
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Determining
and/or clarifying
what you want |
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Strategizing
an action plan |
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Being
supported in the
realization of the
dream |
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An
MMS trained coach is
someone who is a facility,
an aid to another person
in getting where
he is already
going. It is someone
who can allow another
person to cut through
his mind, get in touch
with his inner essence
and know exactly what
he wants. |
The
coaching process is the
opposite of being an expert.
It is about being bonded
to another person and
going on a journey into
his inner world to find
out his secret truths.
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He
is a person who
can set aside his
own concerns or
worries and be present
with and for another.
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He
is a person who
can accept the client
as he is and encourage
him to go for what
he wants. |
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He
listens, intuits,
and probes. |
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He
blends male and
female energy: the
female being accepting,
receptive, and loving
coupled with the
male energy, which
is probing, thursting,
and causative. The
blend of the two
validate where the
person is and encourage
him to go for what
he wants. |
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| | Industry perception of Dr. Cherie
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- David Sorg, Regional Manager, California. |
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- Tineke von der Vorst, CEO & President, Vorst-Impuls Training & Management. |
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